Since completing the mentorship, my understanding of the "goal" of diet recovery has completely changed.
Before Isabel’s Mentorship, I had done A LOT of work around Intuitive Eating, however, I still believed there was a ‘right’ way to eat. You know, sitting down, relishing every bite, “eating mindfully,” etc.
80% of me felt “liberated” and 20% of me was holding onto “that right way of eating” and even occasionally weighing myself and judging my body accordingly when I felt like I was failing at this “right way.” I struggled with long-held perfectionism in other areas of my life as well—including my parenting and in my work life as a coach.
Of course, when I started, I thought I knew all of the “non-diet” theory on an intellectual level and just wasn’t embodying it. I thought I knew everything and just “wasn’t doing it” or just “not believing” non-diet messages when it came to my own body.
Since completing the mentorship, my understanding of the “goal” of diet-recovery has completely changed. I no longer judge myself based on “correct” eating and my self-worth is no longer defined by my eating habits at all.
I don’t think about what I’ve eaten in the past, I’m not on any wagons, and if I ever notice an old diet-mentality thought pop up (they’re very rare these days), I see it for what it is and it lasts no longer than a few seconds.
I can now pass this freedom onto my clients with confidence—since it isn’t just “intellectual” for me anymore.
I’ve faced my perfectionism head-on, I’m more accepting of myself and others, and I have a newfound felt sense of my worthiness at my core. Support for my clients comes naturally and easily through this deeply internalized experience of body love.
Liz Kirby, lifeunfiltered.com